Jumat, 26 Oktober 2018

What decided to be yours, will be yours.

Hi there,
It’s Zidnie again.

October 2018, few days before my birthday, a very good news came; Mas Fahmi chosen as one of the Lecturer in Faculty of Animal Science, Universitas Gadjah Mada, one of his dream and of course, I am happy and so proud of him.

The day before he submitted the application, he was with me and he asked my suggestion about his sentence and the grammar before he pressed ‘submit’. When I read his application, my eyes were caught by a sentence of his motivation becoming a lecturer. Let me quote that for you,

Ada hal lain yang menjadi tujuan utama menjadi seorang dosen adalah menurut kepercayaan yang saya anut, satu dari tiga amal jariyah yang akan abadi adalah apabila kita membagikan ilmu yang bermanfaat bagi orang lain. Dan hal tersebut ada pada kewajiban menjadi seorang dosen.

“The other reason is in my belief, one of the everlasting practices is sharing the beneficial knowledge to others. And that is obviously the lecturer’s responsibility”

I am touched. I am totally touched by his truth, his kindness, and his dreams. I am envy. I am envy with his ability to dream that big, I am envy with his heart to have a very kind reasons and goals, I am envy with his dedication to achieve his dreams.

He is a dedicated person, indeed. He prepared all the important event at the same time because the selection test was all happened on the wedding week! Early September, he got the notification that he passed the administration test, means he should go to Jogja for the next process. Meanwhile, he was preparing for the wedding at mid-September in Solo.

A day before the wedding, all day long, he was on Psychological test in Jogja. The day, 8 AM, he should sit down at the meja akad nikah in Solo. Right after, we need to go back to Jogja because he needs preparation time for his presentation. An hour after the presentation, we obligated to go to Magetan as we will have second wedding party there. No rest, no honeymoon, no times to ‘breath’. But Alhamdulillah, hard work and effort never betray.


I believe that what decided to be yours will be yours. How hard someone tried, if it does not belong to them then never in a million it will go for them. But one thing that I learn from Mas Fahmi is the capacity to dream, believe and make it happened, and this is why I am a proud wifey!

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