The compromise.

“If you want to go fast, go alone. If you want to go far, go together” – proverb.

Hi everyone,

Zidnie is back.

Recently one of my best friend came to Jogja. We had a quick meeting and a catch-up discussion. One time, she said “I am still shocked with your decision to marrying mas Obi, Zid. First, I just never imagined you as a wife. Because I know you are quite ambitious and I am still amazed by how you delighted to give in and live in mas Obi’s shadow”.

I smiled, “I believe our spouse is our forever team-mate. We definitely need to work together and work closely with him to achieve goals. Even when we had to hardly row the boat to move, we will do it together”. #remindmeofthisgreatmindofmine #LOL

To be able to achieving goals, we need to compromise. Compromise doesn’t mean you failed. Compromise means you are wise enough to know your place, duty and do the best. Marriage is pretty much like the company. The financial manager could not be the sales manager at the same time. People in organization should divide the job so the company could run smoothly. It does not mean that the financial manager is less important than the sales manager, isn’t it?

I am forever grateful. Someone is doing his best to be my husband, even we are both newbie to be this position. We are also trying to figure out the best rhythm for both. But once again, compromise and compromise. Do our best in our-own task, and we will go far, together.

Happy 5^th month being with me, mas Fahmi!