Hi, everyone.
Zidnie is back.
This is my second week doing the Instagram detox (in case you are wondering
where was I. LOL). Meanwhile, I will do the update here, in my husband’s blog.
I’ve recently watched ‘Hanum and Rangga: Faith in the City’ yesterday. Despite
from its political controversy, I found some interesting points about marriage,
which I also experienced.
One of the points I’d like to highlight is the sacrifice. Pictured on the film,
Hanum is obsessed to her dreams, being a journalist in New York City. She,
unfortunately, forgets her main job as a wife. She never come home punctually. She gives her husband an instant
noodle for breakfast frequently because she has no time to prepare breakfast. And even they do not have any couple quality time. I
somewhat agree with the movie twist ending that Hanum decides to go with Rangga, her
husband, to Vienna, leave New York City and she said “my dream is wherever am
with you”.
“Zidnie, don’t you say you agree that women could not have dreams and men could?”
Nope.
“Zidnie, then you say that women should only services the man and can’t do
anything more than that?”
Nope!
I believe, wife should not give up on her dreams. But there is a difference
after the marriage. I stated at the on-air interview, “Girls, married only
when you finished achieving your personal dreams. Cause after married, no more
my dreams or his dreams, but our dreams, together”.
I am pretty satisfied and grateful of what I’ve achieved up to this time. I
also have many more dreams to come. But decided to marry a man named Fahmi Habibi
means I turn my dreams to Habibi X Urbayani vision. Which we will reach it together, with
both hands, brains, and prays. This is why I believe the urgency to marry
someone who has the same vision and dreams as yours. Because from now on, it
will be ‘our’ dreams. Moreover, there is a saying “behind a man’s successful there is a brave
and successful woman” because believe it or not, that is actually ‘our’ dreams.
Quoted from
Michelle Obama’s interview with Oprah, “Marriage is hard work for any couple”. You
need to build and maintain the love with all matters. By that, you can work
together as a teammate to achieve ‘our’ dreams.
It is a piece of my random thought. Give your opinion with comment below or do tell me your thought on other social media platform.
Till next time,
XOXO
PS: Anyways, mas Fahmi happy 2nd month being with me. Let us fly
higher with this marriage-ship. Aye aye, Captain!
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